My childhood may be very challenging but my mom did her best to let me enjoy it. She would always let me play with my cousins and join them in out of town trips every summer. I considered those days as the best days of my life as I was growing up.

Now that I am an adult and a mom of two, I do my best to expose my kids to different life adventures, it may be outside or in the comfort of our small home. I encourage them to do what they love and discover the beauty of every endeavor even if they don't like some of them. I always tell them that in life, there are things that they don't like to do but they have to do them because it is necessary. I give them tasks to teach them the value of being responsible. I don't spoon feed them. I expose them to the outside world by learning how to commute and become street smart. I let them see that the world they live in is not just about what is beautiful and comfortable but of course, there are harsh realities that they need to see in order for them to value what they have and to find ways on how to live responsibly not just for their own sake but to coexist with others harmoniously as well.

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This #Binatilyo was on #OJT today. From delivery and merchandising, we went straight to shopping raw materials. He said, "Ma, tomorrow please let me stay at home and rest." LOL! 😅 . Exposing him often to the ins and outs of our humble #business makes him realize that money is a product of hard work, persistence, perseverance, and patience. 😉 . #allaroundpinaymama #aapmmusings #aapmkids #Kuya #tween #aapmparenting #parenting #son #mom #family #momblogger #mommybloggersphilippines #momswhoblogph #certifiedbloggers #metrobuzzbloggers #igersmanila #ust #ustchurch #9april2017 #faithshoppeph #wherejuanagoes #positiveparenting #nban #nothingbutanokia

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After two years of continuous support from his therapists and teachers, Bunso is now more comfortable going to and staying in public places. I am so happy that his senses are slowly adjusting to his environment. . Taking care of my dear Bunso may be challenging most of the time but the joy that he brings to my life is priceless . See, I am so ready to do more simple adventures with him, like having a fun LRT round trip for instance! This is a nice way to start #2017, isn't it? 😁 . #allaroundpinaymama #aapmkids #autismmom #momsofautismangels #autismspeaks #aokPH #autismawareness #lifeisgood #hello2017 #aapmmusings #momswhoblogph #mommybloggersphilippines #certifiedbloggers #momblogger #igersmanila #LRT2 #train #trainride #1january2017

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As a mom, I value virtues and relationships more than material things. I prioritize practicing being a good citizen more than being vain and focused on titles. I want people to treat me for who I am and not for what I have and this is what I always remind my sons to be.

Exploring the different parts of your own community, the entire Philippines, and the world is one of the best ways to learn. Learning or discovering new things and different cultures beyond the eyes can see matters to me that I want to pass to my kids. For me, learning to be appreciative of a person's background and culture as well as being empathic in his condition are the things that truly matter. 

Childhood is all about learning, growing, and exploring new things. Every little detail of the child's exposure to his environment and the people who live in it contribute to a child's cognitive, emotional, and holistic development. It is possible at its best when you give your child proper nutrition, especially the one that has optimized protein such as Nestle NANKID OPTIPRO for your child to achieve his fullest potential.

Nestle NANKID OPTIPRO, a powdered milk drink suited for healthy children above three years of age was formulated in Switzerland.


It is a milk full-packed with all the essential vitamins, minerals, and DHA. It has no sucrose also known as table sugar to make sure that it is a healthy choice for kids. Furthermore, NANKID OPTIPRO has a high quality optimized protein, one of the most important nutrients for a child's growth and development, contributing to the building of brain, muscles, and body.

As moms, we have the power to #ReShapeTheFuture of our children. I invite you to watch Scarlet Snow's webisodes HERE to see how she is being supported by her parents, Doctors Vicky Belo and Hayden Kho, to become the best that she can be in the future.

How about you, dear moms? How do you #ReShapeTheFuture of your children?

I agree with the saying that parents today face an immense challenge. It is a common concern among them to figure out and plan the things that they should do to make sure that their kids grow up self-directed and ready to face what the future brings.

Technology can make the lives of the kids in this generation easier but it poses another challenge for parents and that is how they and their kids can keep up without losing their chances to socialize with other people and not to get dependent and addicted to their gadgets. Parents nowadays may be very busy with their work or personal struggles and their kids may be focused on their studies and school activities that lead to lack of exercise and physical activities. Furthermore, the advent of readily available fast-food chains and prepacked meals can also compromise their nutrition making the family especially kids manifesting health and psychosocial problems like obesity, social difficulties, attention problems, and learning deficiencies.

These concerns can be overwhelming, can't they? However, with consistency, dedication, patience, and a little guidance and support from fellow parents, experts and Parentology+, powered by NANKID, it's entirely possible for parents to ensure that their kids are ready for the future.

Like most parents do, it is a must for Paps and I to give time to our kids. We talk and spend quality time with them as a family or individually. We encourage them to do what makes them happy and expose them to activities that can enhance their fine and gross motor skills. We make sure that we are not busy with our gadgets when we interact with them. We focus on one another.

As parents try to navigate the new challenges presented by changing lifestyles and technological advancements, Parentology+ powered by NANKID, is making sure that parents are empowered with the tips that will help reshape their children's future.

Launched earlier this year, Parentology+ is anchored on three pillars--- proper nutrition, active lifestyle, and high social quotient. "The success of Parentology+, gave parents an opportunity to address challenges presented by modern parenting. We would like to go deeper into these issues and really flesh out the importance of these three pillars, as well as give parents the tools to establish this at home," exclaimed Jean Espino, Vice President for Marketing-Premium Milks of Nestle Philippines.

Understanding that parents seek guidance and tips from people they trust, Parentology+ sought the help of various experts to weigh in and give advice for the three pillars, partnered with the NANKID ambassadors.

Cat Arambulo-Antonio is skilled at juggling relationships in different situations, and with clinical psychologist, Dr. Cely Magpantay, the two believe that in order to help your child socialize, it's important to put your child in new situations where they can learn and listen to others. To better encourage kids to socialize with others, Dr. Cely says, "Warm up, be present at first, then be invisible during playtime. Join them at the start of the activity, and eventually let them be. Be a role model to them."

In the event, they have also prepared an activity that lets moms and kids do work together to see what traits their child already possess and how they can further build on them to make them more socially competent.

Nutrition can be challenging for parents, especially when kids need around 3,000 calories a day. However, Joy Sotti and Ms. Aleli Magtibay, Nestle's own Nutritionist, say that it can be done with moderation, balance, and variety of food options. Ms. Aleli further advises parents, "Follow portions by making sure to give a combination of go, grom, and glow foods in every meal, and practice variety, in terms of flavor, texture, color, and food preparation"

For Parentology+, a kitchen set-up was created for kids to be able to select different food in the pantry to create a balanced meal which then is verified by an interactive nutrition guide and scanner.

Playtime may seem like a regular activity for children, but benefits on the child's physical health is hard to ignore. Anton del Rosario and Dr. Edgar Eufemio, an orthopedist specializing in sports medicine, want parents and kids to realize that some activities are better than others. Through a fun goal kicking challenge, kids learned the different traits that are beneficial to their physical development and lifestyle.

When asked how to encourage kids to be more active, Dr. Edgar says, "Give them a taste of success by giving words of encouragement. Be supportive of your kids' activities, so they would just continue doing what they love to do. Also, play with them. if you expect them to be disciplined and grow up a certain way, do it with them."

Parents are encouraged to be a role model for their children, and participate in their various activities, may it be socializing, eating healthier and staying active. Through learning the style of modern parenting, Parentology+, can help parents create a customized model that can help reshape their child's future. These three pillars are essential to the development of a healthy, well-rounded child that's ready to take on the challenges the future holds.

The ambassadors and experts all encourage everyone to drop by Parentology+ to learn more about the three pillars, and how they can make their own home, a home of the future. With the different activities that await participants, exciting prizes such as digital instant cameras, premium tumblers, and other exclusive NANKID items can be won when they post their experience at Parentology+ on social media using the hashtags #NANKID, #PARENTOLOGY, and #ReShapeTheFuture.

Parentology+, powered by NANKID, will also be coming to SM Cebu on August 11 to 12 and Abreeza Davao on August 25 to 26.

For more details, visit their Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/NANKIDOPTIPRO/.

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Nankid Optipro Four and Optipro HW Four are not breastmilk substitutes. These products are for healthy children above 3 years of age.